Most people, including myself care so much about what other people think, we care that if I try this and fail people by judging us and they will label us as a failure.Â
How To Stop Caring About What Others Think
While it is normal to care what other people think about us, this behavior is one of the reasons most people do not take action, whether in business or in other aspects of life, in this post I am going to share with you how to stop caring about what others think.
Remember that everything in life is temporary
Do you have a bad life? it is temporary it will end one day, Do you have a good life? guess what it will end one day, everything in this life including life itself is temporary.
Things can change in a split second, today I am writing this blog post, no one knows what will happen next, this fact should encourage you to do the thing you want to do but you are afraid you will fail and people will laugh at you.
You are 1 out of 8 billion people
Keep in mind that you are 1 out of 8 billion people, apart from your mother and the other 2 o 3 people who are closer to you, probably no one else cares about you.
I know that it is harsh but that is the reality, if you do not believe me, disappear for a few months and check your social if anyone will get bothered to ask what happened to you.
probably nobody unless you are some kind of an influencer, so why do you care what other people think if they do not think about you in the first place? do you.
Focus on yourself and your goals
We already established that there are 8 billion people in the world and almost none of them care about you, that is a good start, now what you need to do is to focus on yourself and your goals.
When you focus on yourself you will not have time to figure out who is saying what about you, and once you do so, other people’s opinions will not affect you.
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No one actually gives a fuck about you
One of the best books on personal development space is called The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, by Mark Manson, after reading this book I figure out that most people have their own problems, they only care about solving their problems and they actually do not give a fuck about you or your problems.
I used to work in a technical support desk, people will call in, they need technical support and they will get mad because you just asked what their name was, I used to get mad about this why do people behave like this? then I realized that these people had a lot of their own problems, it just happened that I was the guy on the other end of the phone, but their anger had nothing to do with me.
Nobody actually gives a fuck about you like that, they have their own life, go on with your own life.
Don’t take criticism from idiots
I remember when I was young if someone criticized me, it will affect me for the rest of the day, even sometimes for a few days. One day one of my friends told me something that changed my life, my friend told me to never take criticism from idiots.Â
I know idiot is a very strong word, but what I will say is that never take criticism from someone you would not take advice from. only take criticism from people who have achieved things you want to achieve.
Final words
That is it, this is how to stop caring about what others think, remember you are not special and no one cares about you or what you do, just focus on yourself and your goals. Thank you for reading.